Dating Rules

Dating Rule no.4 Make your move

Most of the men find uneasy to make an initial move. It is a fear of being rejected for the first time they approach to someone who has attracted to them. But how can you be so sure without making an initial contact. The fear of rejection has caused lot of people to remain single. As a result, large numbers of people are living in hatred and unhappiness.

To make your move to find your partner, go ahead and get rejected. This might make you feel easier to approach anybody, the next time. The pain of rejection still hurts and remains in heart but it gets little. In the near future, someone will certainly accept you but what if you wait for opposite sex to make an initial contact? This might take a long time or may not happen with you in your whole life.
The research have shown that 80% of initial contact made by woman are positively accepted .If you are a woman and you like someone in the corner then walk ahead and talk with him before someone approaches him.

You should better have knowledge how to make an initial contact? The most important thing is to make an eye contact with the person you find attractive and smile. If they smile back to you then there is a chance for you. If they turn away their face then there is less chance. At this moment if you approach them, you might get rejected. But what if the person likes you and has a shy nature and is uncomfortable to the people of opposite sex. So make your move first and find out.

You start with some kind of humorous moves so to attract the person you like or bold moves like Hi! I am Charlie .The way you starts your conversation depends from person to person. It is better you study what natured she is? After, you share your interests, likes and dislikes, private feelings. You start laughing and feels like you’ve known each other from a long time.

Sooner or later you got to end your conversation and bid bye bye. Now, it is time where you must fix your next date. You will ask his/her phone numbers. Some people do not exchange their phone numbers after leaving then they regret searching the same person the rest of the life.

It’s still a matter of disappointment when you do not get a call even if you had exchanged the numbers. They may have lost your number or may be too busy to make you call. They may fantasize that you might reject them the next time you meet.

I advice you to confirm a date ahead to meet your special person. You should give a call to him/her and ask out for a date. Even if you get rejected, do not worry because there are lots of singles waiting for you in your life.

Originally posted 2008-07-13 12:55:20.

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