Making Dating Rules of your own
Posted on Nov 26, 2009 under dating rules | No Comment| [ad] | In the online dating sites there is lots of dating advices and suggestions for you. If you follow these dating rules given by the dating agency then you will surely be benefited by them but still some rules are complicated and cannot be applicable for you. That is why it’s better if you could set dating rules of your own. |
You know what kind of partner will be fit for you. You seek some qualities in him. It’s better if you make the dating rules that can be applicable to you and your partner. You have the right and also the choice to decide what is important in dating.
While choosing your partner you may want to choose the people following the same customs and beliefs. There are Christian dating sites targeted to the fellow Christians. If you choose a Christian partner then you may be together in the church and other religious functions. You will find lots of similarity while taking a long walk of life.
If you have met this person who is very nice on a chat room or phone and now you are looking forward to meet him, where will you go on a date? It’s always safe to date on public places like parks and restaurants. It will be a good idea if you plan to go on a double date. This would make you feel comfortable and the date would go fun.
Is your date casual or intimate? Do you date with single partner or several ones? How do you consider your relationship with your partner –is it serious? Is physical relationship necessary for you and your partner? You can make a rule if you do not want sex until married. If you are having sex with your partner then remember he should be worthy of it.
Do you make rules to avoid situations that increase temptation? Do you get aware of your partner holding your hand, kissing and touching?
If you are in relationship then define what your role is. Some women take the role as a mother rather than his girlfriend and ruin the date. Some women take the place of maid and always remain below the level of her partner. Today’s women are independent and hardworking and all you need is to give some attention, time and love to men.
Do you want any kind of commitment in your relationship? What are the boundaries you define in your relationship? Do you have enough time for your partner or do you engaged in your own work for a long time?
Finally you must know when to give up that guy. If he doesn’t make a call after first date, if he doesn’t have time for you but his friends, if he is against your set of rules, whenever you think he is not perfect for you can leave him. If you walk forward you will see lot of singles waiting for you.
Setting these basic rules by yourself let you go comfortable with your relationship with your partner. So I advice you to be abide by rules when you seek your partner and go dating.
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Originally posted 2008-08-27 18:21:29.